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So Much Better
Saying Goodbye to the Middle Kingdom
But I never made it to Hong Kong (I guess we ran out of weekends and I only had one entry added to my visa) or experienced acupuncture (though I did look up and find a reputable, expat-y place near my apartment. What I realize now is that plans change. When I was packing I didn’t know that there would be an NYU sponsored trip that would send 60 NYU students into the dunes of the Gobi desert (or that I would be unlucky and not get one of these coveted spots). Or that my other roommate Clarissa and I would decide, screw it, we’re going to play with camels and sleep under the stars whether NYU arranges it or not.
Instead of acupuncture I got an amazing (and really cheap!) Thai massage in Phuket and instead of visiting Hong Kong I was able to visit Tokyo, somewhere I have always wanted to go but never got the chance, and eat some of the freshest sushi in the world at 5 am at the Tsujiki fish market. I met some amazing people and did amazing things. This semester wasn’t what I expected (or packed for…).
It was so much better.
Thanks for a great class everyone – your comments always made writing these posts just a little more entertaining :) Have a great winter break.
Photo: "View from atop a camel" - I took this on my film camera (hence the light streaks, it's really old ;) during the first break when my roommate and I decided to trek into the Gobi desert on camels (the best $50 I have ever spent :) The whole experience was surreal and beautiful and cold.
Tips for Visiting or Studying Abroad in Shanghai
The good, the bad, and the awesome.
Tip: Even if you can speak Chinese fairly well, taxi drivers may still not understand you. It is amazing to just be able to hand a driver a printed out copy of where you need to go with the address in Chinese characters. I found this website in my first month here and it has proved to be invaluable and reduced my stress about getting places J
http://shanghai.streetsofchina.com/
Here are a few phrases that will help you get around your first few days:
Ni Hao - Hello
Zai Jian- Goodbye
Xie Xie- Thank you
Duo Shao Qian? – How much does this cost?
(Bu) Yao – (don’t) want
(Bu) Yong- (don’t) need
(Yi Ping) Bing Shui – (One Bottle) Iced water – Chinese people think that cold drinks are generally bad for your health and will typically serve you tea or just plain boiled water with your meals. Tip: If there is a sealed plastic packet with chopsticks and napkins on it at your table you will probably have to pay extra for it.
Wo Shi Mei Guo Ren - I am American
Wo Bu Shou Zhong Wen – I don’t speak Chinese
Ting Bu Dong – I don’t understand
Ce Suo Zai Nali?-Where is the bathroom? Tip: Always carry toilet paper around with you – even some of the nicest squatty potties will lack this necessity.
Many people found cycling to school to be fun, inexpensive, and a good way to see the city and get to school- but get a good bike lock! Bikes are stolen every day!
Download the NYU VPN before you arrive- you’ll need it to access lots of blocked sites from Facebook to Wordpress to Google. Tip: try not to get too frustrated with the Internet speed here, if you’re trying to watch an American TV show or download an attachment or simply just trying to do some last minute research I recommend taking a break (the VPN gets slower when there are lots of people on it) and go buy some fake DVDs at any of the stands around campus and the apartments.
Eat lunch in some of ECNU’s many cafeterias – the main cafeteria has 3 floors and over 50 restaurants for food – all stands are under $3 for a large lunch. I recommend the Xiao Long Bao (soup dumplings) and think they are some of the best I’ve had in the city. Or the Japanese cafeteria next to the main has great sushi, curry, and fruit slushies (bing sha) – try the peanut slushie! It’s awesome!
Unlock your cell phone (iPhone or blackberry) before you arrive or just buy a new phone when you get here – they are crazy cheap – about $20 for the phone and 1.5 cents per text. Tip: if you have an iPhone that you are willing to unlock, a 500mb data plan is only about $10 per month and you will NEVER use that much data – it’s really been a lifesaver to have a map, translator, and the Internet on the go.
Don’t buy the cheapest thing on store shelves- buy the 3rd or 4th cheapest. My friend Rob thought it would be okay to buy the cheapest Chinese brand of toothpaste – it turned his teeth black. Tip: For all things hygiene related go with western brands that you trust. Tip for girls: Bring all feminine hygiene products you’ll need for the semester with you from home, tampons do not have applicators here (this frightens some people).
You will hear this in every Chinese guidebook but: Bargain, bargain, bargain -It is a way of living in China – sellers even have systems for tagging tourists who are willing to pay outrageously high prices so that other sellers know it (usually a different colored shopping bag or something of the sort). Tips for bargaining - if the price seems like what you would pay in America (be it for boots, a backpack, or a fur poncho) you’re paying too much (almost everything in tourist-filled markets is fake) – probably six times what the seller got it for – start bargaining at about half of what you want to pay and if you stick below that price you’re doing well J
Sherpas.com.cn – a great resource for when you’re really craving western food and don’t want to leave your cozy luxury apartment– they deliver right to your door and offer free delivery from 2-5pm Monday through Friday! (The dishes even come with forks!) I recommend Wagas – for sandwiches and pasta – pricey but will satisfy your cravings
Yolota – right next to the off campus apartments – you’ll probably end up here when you’re too lazy to go anywhere else but too broke to order Sherpas – its delicious Taiwanese noodles – with peanut sauce or in soup, not too pricey and very filling.
Finally: Coco– possibly the greatest thing about studying in China – CoCo is an amazingly delicious Taiwanese bubble tea store with 5 locations just between the apartments and campus alone (new ones pop up every day). CoCo here is cheap – only about $1 per cup for lots of delicious beverages – the most popular being Jin Ju Nai Cha (literally pearl milk tea). It’s so popular that they have two locations in New York now (but you pay way more than $1 a cup L
The picture is a notebook/ calendar I got at CoCo (I had to buy two special winter drinks and pay five kuai to get it but it was so worth it)
Disenchantment
A “world traveler’s” struggle with travel weariness
My go-to nickname among my close friends is “world traveler” and its one that I have accepted and enjoyed. All of my travel experiences – with family, friends, or by myself- have, for the most part, been positive. As an Anthropologist I love learning about, tasting, and experiencing all cultures. I thought that I was immune to the potential negative side effects. I travelled long distances without experiencing severe jet lag, travelers’ diarrhea, food poisoning, or culture shock. I have even studied abroad – albeit for six weeks in at an NYU summer program. As I packed for this semester I thought that I would be able to take on whatever was thrown at me. After all, even if it is halfway around the world, Shanghai is a fairly modern metropolitan city with a good deal of western conveniences. Even still I came equipped with any sort of medication, bandage, spray, or antibiotic I might need.
What I wasn’t prepared for was the time after the first six weeks. It's in the weeks following gastro-intestinal adjustment, post-culture shock, after you are supposed to be settled in to your new life, getting into the swing of classes – that I began to feel something else – travel weariness. It’s possible that this feeling developed because I had experienced for the first time in my life food poisoning, travellers diarrhea, and the irrational stage of culture shock all in the span of less than six weeks. Both my body and my mind had been thrown for a loop – As a former try anything, sleep anywhere, eat everything, strong-stomached globetrotter I was now a confused, queasy version of my former self.
For the first time since the travel bug bit me at age 14, all I wanted to do was curl up on my couch and watch movies. Travel weariness is different than homesickness. I didn’t need to go back to America or see my family; Skype allows a good constant form of communication. What I wanted was to stop moving, stop being a tourist, stop trying to see and do everything. I had become disenchanted with the idea of traveling. I think my real epiphany is that living in a foreign place is draining in ways that all the vacationing in the world could not have prepared me for a semester studying abroad.
Hopefully a restful, but as is the tradition with my family, vacation-filled, winter break will spark a new and more aware travel itch. My summer spent exploring Scandinavia and northern Europe with almost no time for decompression before going to China is probably what led to my travel weariness.
I took this picture during my first few hazy weeks on a hazy Shanghai afternoon.
What I wasn’t prepared for was the time after the first six weeks. It's in the weeks following gastro-intestinal adjustment, post-culture shock, after you are supposed to be settled in to your new life, getting into the swing of classes – that I began to feel something else – travel weariness. It’s possible that this feeling developed because I had experienced for the first time in my life food poisoning, travellers diarrhea, and the irrational stage of culture shock all in the span of less than six weeks. Both my body and my mind had been thrown for a loop – As a former try anything, sleep anywhere, eat everything, strong-stomached globetrotter I was now a confused, queasy version of my former self.
For the first time since the travel bug bit me at age 14, all I wanted to do was curl up on my couch and watch movies. Travel weariness is different than homesickness. I didn’t need to go back to America or see my family; Skype allows a good constant form of communication. What I wanted was to stop moving, stop being a tourist, stop trying to see and do everything. I had become disenchanted with the idea of traveling. I think my real epiphany is that living in a foreign place is draining in ways that all the vacationing in the world could not have prepared me for a semester studying abroad.
Hopefully a restful, but as is the tradition with my family, vacation-filled, winter break will spark a new and more aware travel itch. My summer spent exploring Scandinavia and northern Europe with almost no time for decompression before going to China is probably what led to my travel weariness.
I took this picture during my first few hazy weeks on a hazy Shanghai afternoon.
Local Support
Three people who have made my experience in Shanghai a lot more comfortable
When thinking about who to write about for this post (which I’ve been doing for far too long since the internet here often refuses to function…) I decided I couldn't just pick one so I narrowed it down to three and described how each has made me feel at home in their own way.
One of the 15 doormen who works in my Apartment building- Like every other position in China, this job is grossly overstaffed – you probably need 3 (at most 4) people to alternate on this job. But there are at least 10 different people who put on the uniform and sit at the desk in the lobby doing nothing. The doorman I am talking about though is my favorite. He has kind eyes and a big goofy grin – he always says “Ni Hao” when I come in and he reminds me the most of the better NYU residence hall security guards. In my life at college so far, those security guards have been a part of my experience, someone to come home to, to have a short chat while signing in a friend or asking them to kindly let you in when you forgot your wallet upstairs. I don’t speak to this man or even know his name but he has made me feel at home in my apartment.
The second person is the friend of a friend of a friend. We actually met the first week I arrived in Shanghai. She just finished graduate school in China, studying Chinese- and is working in some kind of a translating position / research position. She has allowed me to explore Shanghai outside of the NYU bubble – but mostly we just hang out, explore new places or go dancing with some of her many friends. I don’t have a ton of older friends in New York but she seems more like an older cousin than anyone else- she knows the city, she knows almost fluent Mandarin, she helps me with my Chinese homework, and she understands and helps me deal with my issues that arise from living in a foreign place.
The third person is my Shanghainese roommate Chloe. Chloe is an amazing person – she is studying teaching Chinese as a foreign language and is double majoring in Economics. She is incredibly sweet, lets me badger her with outlandish anthropologically based questions about Chinese life and culture, tries really hard not to laugh when I speak horrific Chinese to practice with her, and likes teaching me about the historic/cultural significance of each character (which I find fascinating). She is like my Chinese sister and I hope that one day she will come visit America so that I can show her as much kindness as she does towards me.
I took this picture of Chloe when we went shopping together at the Yu Yuan gardens, a favorite tourist shopping area.
One of the 15 doormen who works in my Apartment building- Like every other position in China, this job is grossly overstaffed – you probably need 3 (at most 4) people to alternate on this job. But there are at least 10 different people who put on the uniform and sit at the desk in the lobby doing nothing. The doorman I am talking about though is my favorite. He has kind eyes and a big goofy grin – he always says “Ni Hao” when I come in and he reminds me the most of the better NYU residence hall security guards. In my life at college so far, those security guards have been a part of my experience, someone to come home to, to have a short chat while signing in a friend or asking them to kindly let you in when you forgot your wallet upstairs. I don’t speak to this man or even know his name but he has made me feel at home in my apartment.
The second person is the friend of a friend of a friend. We actually met the first week I arrived in Shanghai. She just finished graduate school in China, studying Chinese- and is working in some kind of a translating position / research position. She has allowed me to explore Shanghai outside of the NYU bubble – but mostly we just hang out, explore new places or go dancing with some of her many friends. I don’t have a ton of older friends in New York but she seems more like an older cousin than anyone else- she knows the city, she knows almost fluent Mandarin, she helps me with my Chinese homework, and she understands and helps me deal with my issues that arise from living in a foreign place.
The third person is my Shanghainese roommate Chloe. Chloe is an amazing person – she is studying teaching Chinese as a foreign language and is double majoring in Economics. She is incredibly sweet, lets me badger her with outlandish anthropologically based questions about Chinese life and culture, tries really hard not to laugh when I speak horrific Chinese to practice with her, and likes teaching me about the historic/cultural significance of each character (which I find fascinating). She is like my Chinese sister and I hope that one day she will come visit America so that I can show her as much kindness as she does towards me.
I took this picture of Chloe when we went shopping together at the Yu Yuan gardens, a favorite tourist shopping area.
Smells like... stinky tofu
The Smells and Spellings of China
But I think that the true genius loci of Shanghai is the mysteriously limbo between stuck in the past – garbage in the streets, spitting – and hurdling towards the future – high tech, brand new metro system, tall, beautiful skyscrapers popping up every week. It is often described as developing too quickly which is, in my opinion, quite accurate. Shanghai wants to be New York but the Shanghainese don’t necessarily want to change or stop selling cheap fried rice on the street late at night or stop letting their toddlers relieve themselves next to trees on the street like dogs. The Chinese – for reasons that have always been unclear to me- refuse to get a good English translator for signs, brochures, museum postings, pretty much everything. It’s primarily because there isn’t much of an English speaking audience for such products but mainly they don't see accurate translations as necessary. Other than picture menus in restaurants, there is not a lot of translation happening. To most Chinese young people (the only ones who actually look at English items) anything with English on it is automatically “cool” even if its just a t-shirt with incomprehensible sentences or a mish-mash of random letters. The picture I selected for this post is something of that nature- English just so that it can be in English – the meaning is written in Chinese elsewhere – this is just to “impress” you (ouch potato ;) Shanghai is changing and the huge community of expats is fostering the sorts of changes that they want to see. But this city still has a lot of work to do to become what they see as an “ideal city”.
I took this picture myself last weekend near a restaurant mall (yes, it is a mall filled only with restuarants - often called food malls).
"Lost on Planet China"
A must-read book about China today
Troost examines every aspect of Chinese life both on a local and national level through his humorous personal stories – everything from pollution to cat-burgers to mountain climbing to standing on the edge of the North Korean border. He starts out the book with an idea of China being the future but along the way forms new opinions – he develops China fatigue – something that I seem to sometimes brush away as culture shock. China has a way of both over and underwhelming at the same time. He discusses the controlling nature of the Chinese Communist party and finds a way (even with more limited Chinese than I have) to talk to locals in every city and town that he visits. In the final chapter Troost discusses China’s future, “If you ignore the environment – an you can’t because the damage is utterly overwhelming - the future of China looks sunny –okay, smoggy—and I suspect that China would find a way to manage all its fissures and problems and perhaps Chinese society would indeed become harmonious – barring a complete societal collapse as the environment degradation undergoes devastating feedback loops. It’s a complex country, not easily summed up” (Troost, 376). And it is this idea- that the country of “Planet” China is in fact as complex as planet earth that is Troost’s concluding thought. This is not a book about what to do in China or what China is “really” all about. This book is China –the good, the bad, the fake stuff, the pollution, the governmental control, the the squatty potties, the dog meat and everything in between. Troost tells it like it is and isn’t trying to please anyone. His honesty and willingness to go everywhere, do anything makes this more of a story than any “travel” book that I’ve ever read – but I promise that it will teach you more about the real China than all the other books combined.
Sunday Afternoon
Examining the Chinese weekend
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Visiting the Shanghai Contemporary
or why I can't seem to enjoy modern art
Image taken by me at the Shanghai Contemporary.
"Authentic" Xiao Long Bao
and the magic of Shanghai's legendary soup dumplings
The link uploader isn't working (probably a Chinese internet issue) but article about the Xiao Long Bao restaurant is pretty interesting and if anything it will make you hungry :) - http://frenziedpalate.blogspot.com/2009/11/jia-jia-tang-bao.html
And watch the video to see these yummy treats being made.
Examining China
How reading about China is far different from experiencing it.
For example, “Zhang Yue is no more representative of today’s China than a fur merchant like John Jacob Astor or a press baron like William Randolph Hearst was representative of the America of his time. But certain prominent characters are interesting because they are so clearly of their culture’s moment in history… He suggests an answer to one fundamental question about the China of the era to come” (Fallows, 39). In this chapter “Mr. Zhang Builds his Dream Town,” Fallows discusses one of China’s newest millionaires who has not only been extraordinarily successful but has done so with a green, efficient air conditioning system which saves the customer money and is overall better for the environment than traditional systems. On the surface such an article might seem simple but the reality is that it is amazingly complex. It not only deals with China’s new wealthy class but the workers who work for them who are, “arguably better off economically than an American in Chicago living on minimum wage” (Fallows, 93). It deals with problems associated with China’s growing population, its less than desirable food production areas, its pollution and its desire to be both successful and sustainable in the future. Each chapter in Fallows’ book works in this interconnected way that keeps the reader interested from cover to cover and prevents a collection of articles from seeming like just that.
Breakfast in China
Chinese breakfast burritos = the greatest food ever
Image: A snapshot of my burrito on the way to school.
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The Subtlety of Understanding
Communicating without speaking or the delights of a Chinese "squatty"
It is not just words that can be confusing in a new place. Often daily activities or tools that are dramatically different from what we expect can throw us for a loop. “In the more fugitive, trivial association of the word exotic, the charm of a foreign place arises from the simple idea of novelty and change – from finding camels where at home there are horses, for example… “ (De Botton, 193). I feel that for Flaubert this feeling of the exotic was often positive but for me there have been a number of times that such “exoticisms” have been negative, throwing me into a spiral of culture shock. This quotation can be summed up in a Chinese context each time one opens a Chinese public toilet stall and is met with a porcelain hole in the ground with little grooves on the sides for one’s feet. There is often no toilet paper (you are required to tote around your own) and since Chinese plumbing is weak and crumbling you must put your used toilet paper into a small trash can next to the “squatty potty” as we lovingly call it. This means that most public bathrooms stink to high heaven and are just generally filthy. Imagine walking into a fancy hotel lobby or casual bar, asking where the bathroom is, opening the stall door just to see a large white hole in the ground on a raised platform staring back at you. The first few times you are perplexed and after that it is just annoying or makes you chuckle.
Lost among the mansions
Internship assignments and not knowing how to find what you're looking for
Some back story: I am Time Out Shanghai’s newest photo intern and part of the job is going out and taking pictures of places that the in-house photographer doesn’t have time to get to (usually in a pinch). On Tuesday night my boss emailed me to ask if I would be able to take some pictures of two beautiful early 20th century mansions in northern Shanghai that are probably going to be demolished.
So, on Wednesday I got out of class at 2:50 armed with the cross streets she had given me (in English, just my luck) and set out to find a taxi. I got into the taxi, recited the cross streets with my minimal understanding of Chinese pronunciation and was met with a blank stare.- a far more common occurrence that I am comfortable with. Oh no. This is bad. I quickly Google the location on my phone and get the district that one of the buildings is in and tell the driver to just drive there, I scramble through many helpless Google findings, wasting megabytes of my data plan, finally coming across an address in Chinese characters and showing it to the driver. As I get out of the cab 25 minutes later I am very apologetic for the confusion and he replies with “Mei guan xi” which means it’s no problem or it doesn’t matter. With a smile I leave the taxi and cross the street, pleased that I managed to navigate myself to this new area. As I continue down the street I’m worried that I might have not found the correct place – after all this building was a Kung Foo Studio over 100 years ago and it is at risk of being torn down by the city – who’s to say that Google didn’t just spit a random article at me? I also a group of old men playing cards if they know “Chin Woo” the name of the school. They point down the street. I ask again, “Chin Woo?” to a group of women, they look confused. I search the dictionary on my phone for the word for school or studio or gym – nothing works. I keep walking. I stumble upon the street for the second location – an old mansion/garden complex - still inexplicably called Nie’s Garden even though the manmade rivers, ponds, flowers, and trees were paved over by the city in the last few years. I take a variety of pictures of the two remaining homes now inhabited by squatters, the huge cement lot in between them, and the beautiful old details – screen porches, grand staircases, and crumbling walls that remain from when they were built in the early 1900s. The sun is setting; I’m getting worried that I won’t be able to find the school. I call my boss, telling her I cant find it. She says she’ll look it up and call me back. She does and she apologizes for giving me the wrong cross streets but that the other building is just down the road from where I’m standing. The old men were right. I smile. I thank her and hang up and finally find four beautiful Spanish mansions built in 1906 that were converted into a Kung Foo School. In the setting sun amidst old palm trees the wrought iron balconies, colored glass windows, and Spanish-tiled roofs look magical as opposed to covered in garbage and graffiti.
This is one of the pictures from my adventure of the Spanish mansion/ Kung Foo School (Sorry for the poor quality, it wouldn't let me use the original) - who knows, maybe one of my pictures will end up on the website or the magazine?
Romantic Nostalgia, Comfort, and Half-True Blogging
or How I might be obsessed with supermarkets
http://shanghaishanghai.wordpress.com/ - you can click here for my blog
In the second chapter of the Art of Travel de Botton writes about T.S. Eliot's explanation of Charles Baudelaire. Eliot wrote that Baudelaire 'invented a new kind of romantic nostalgia' (Art of Travel, 33). This is something that I recognize in my own experiences. While Baudelaire saw the beauty in travel and machines, I see this beauty in something possibly equally mundane, the super market. In many places that I have traveled and lived I find comfort in supermarkets and markets in general. If there is anything that all humans do it is eat and buy things on a regular basis. Finding a supermarket is also something that is necessary when you first come to a place- it is guaranteed that there is a food you need to buy or the inevitable thing you forgot (even though you made sure you brought everything you needed). Both two summers ago when I went to Paris for the summer and right now in Shanghai all supermarkets are a place of comfort for me. It is one of the few places where I can fall back on my own ways and do exactly what the locals are doing without having to act like a bewildered foreigner (even if I have no idea what 70% of the foodstuffs are or why there are 45 kinds of mooncakes). Even during my first few weeks in New York as a freshman Spacemarket and D'agastinos provided a similar comfort.
Later on in the chapter de Botton further describes both Baudelaire's fascination with travel and new technology involved with it as well as his person interest in airplanes. With my supermarket fascination I also marvel at all things different- what things in this supermarket reflect differences in our cultures? - what products are more common (fresh tea, unpackaged raw meats, dried products) and which are less common or missing entirely (milk, cheese, napkins). But de Botton, in a similar way to the comfort I feel in supermarket perusing, feels comfort in comfortable things in a new environment, "With the in-flight tray, we make ourselves at home in this unhomely place: we appropriate the extraterrestrial landscape with the help of a chilled bread roll and a plastic dish of potato salad" (Art of Travel, 43).
(I actually took this photo in a nearby supermarket - I seem to take a lot of photos in supermarkets - I felt that it connected well with my ideas of both comfort and confusion)
Introduction
Greetings from Shanghai.
My name is Rebecca (Becca) Zeidman. I am a Junior in CAS studying Anthropology. I am minoring in Global Visual Art and Media, Culture, and Communications. I don't have a specific career path in mind but I know I want to do something with travel and photography later on. This fall I am studying in Shanghai and I joined this course so that I would be forced to actively examine my experience abroad as well as learning about people's experiences at other study abroad sites. I am also working as a photo intern at Time Out Shanghai which hasn't started but should be an interesting experience. I have been in Shanghai for almost two weeks and my experience so far has been very positive. Though this is not my first time in China (I have actually vsited Shanghai twice before) this time it feels remarkably different becuase we live and go to school quite far from the tourist/city center. We are just finishing up our first week of classes and they have been fairly normal so far (Elementary Chinese I four times a week is a bit much but it is a requirement of the program to be taking a Chinese course). Each of the non-Chinese classes are three hour blocks once per week which can be a bit draining.
As you may or may not know many social networking sites (and a host of other sites) are blocked or limited in China including - Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr, etc. So I set up a WordPress blog linked to my facebook before I left home (http://shanghaishanghai.wordpress.com/). It has a bit more of my daily life and funny stories about the first two weeks.
The internet in my apartment is very weak but once I get back to the school building I will be able to upload more/better pictures.
I look forward to your posts and comments,
Becca
(This first photo is one that I took on my little cell phone of raw beef on ice at a great hot pot [cooking food in boiling broth] restaurant near the apartments)












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